What should I do?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-29-2005
What should I do?
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Sat, 11-12-2005 - 9:31pm

Ok all, I need your help! A few weeks ago me and my best friends from years ago, meet up. We have been hanging out almost everyday. He kisses me, and holds me tight. He tells me that is is afraid of getting hurt again, so he will admitt he loves me, but says he is not in love with me. NOt yet at least. Anyway, he is moving tomarrow. The last time I seen him was at his "FAMILY ONLY" birthday party which was on 11/6. I have been calling him, but he has not been answering,which is unlike him to do. I asked him if I could come to his house and see him before he leaves tomarrow, his reply was "we'll see". i don't get it, just last week we were calling and text messaging each other everyday, but the last 3 days he seems preoccupied and uninterested in talking to me. I am madly in love with him, and I don't know what to do!

I wasn't his official girlfriend, i was just a special friend, so I know we didn't break up, is he just trying to save himself from heart ache? What should I do? Should I let him leave with out saying goodbye?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2003
In reply to: cj17821
Sat, 11-12-2005 - 11:24pm

He's not "in love" with you?

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