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What should I do?
| Fri, 11-19-2004 - 12:05am |
Well as my story goes I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years now and we have 2 children together. We have been living together for 3 years but he has another girlfriend. She doesn't live here. But whenever she's here he always has time to do things wit her. It's kind of complicated to explain the situation because it's going on since way back. But now i've reached to a point where I can't take it anymore. He is always busy so he never has any time for me. We don't really have that much alone time. We don't hardly do anything as a couple anymore. I am still in love with him and I want things to work out but I don't know what to do. He says he has to be involved with that other woman still because she has his child (before me). We recently broke up and it's kind of hard dealing with it because we have kids. I want to get back with him and I know if I tell him he will get back with me. We had a nasty break up where words we said etc. Now he's calling saying how much he's hurt and all. I'm kind of confused and all I can think about is the good in him instead of the bad. When we were in the relationship all I could think about was the bad. Everytime I look at our daughter I see him. I can't really just forget about him because we have a history together kids and eight and a half years in this relationship.

Why on earth would you have not one but two children with a man that had another girlfriend???
Decide what you want, you either want him in your life alone and no other girlfriend or you want to share him for the rest of your life with this other woman.
Personally I wouldn't want my children to be involved in that kind of a dysfunctional relationship.