What should I do?

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Registered: 08-24-2004
What should I do?
Fri, 10-01-2004 - 10:47am
Hello everyone! I am new to this board. I am a regular on the Cosmopolitan message boards but I thought this one might help out a lot more than they could right about now.

So, here is my situation that I need some advice about. It starts off like everyone else's does; I met this boy and we've been hanging out together/seeing each other for about a month or so now. He's an athlete and he's considering transferring schools this upcoming semester. The only problem is where he is at now the coach has offered him a deal to keep him from leaving. this deal would give him 2 more years of eligible playing time. I think he should take it b/c then he wouldn't have to worry about credits not transferring over and whether or not the school has his major. His mom feels the same way I do. We talk about how we feel about each other all of the time. He sayd he really likes me and cares about me. I feel like if he leaves and goes to the other school then he will not want to be with me in a long distance relationship. I don't mind being in a LDR, I've been in a couple before. I kind of gave up on the others but this is one I know I would stick out b/c I care about him VERY much. I just don't want to seem selfish by wanting him to stay here. But I don't want him to leave. He's an awesome person. I like everything about him. With him it's never a dull moment, we're always laughing at things. We have a great time together. It's just great! If anybody out there can help me I would really appreciate it. Thanks!!!!!


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