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what should i do?
| Sun, 09-12-2004 - 7:46pm |
So i went out to a local small club last night solo. I was just relaxing and sitting at the bar for a bit and struck up conversation with the "HOT" waitress. Whenever she walked by me, i caught her looking, so when she stopped right next to me, i struck up conversation with her. It was about a 5 minute convo with me asking her all the questions. I had her laughing and smiling alot, but she didnt ask one question about me, but i still caught her looking every now and then through out the night.
Now today i was browsing through some personals and seen her profile!!! :)
Everything i asked about herself was what she had in her profile and yes it was her!
Now should i go head and respond to her profile or wait a few days? What should i say? "you look familiar"?? This was weird because i just met this girl last night to run into her profile

I'd just go back to the bar and say you'd seen a profile that looked like her and ask if it was. Of course, do you match the criteria she's after? ;-) The reason I'd go back rather than replying on line is because it gives her a second non committal chance to 'review' you and you get to do the same as well.
I think I'd be a bit disconcerted if a guy who'd talked to me in a bar suddenly sent me an email from my online profile. No matter if it was a coincidence or not, I'd still be like 'ok how'd he find out?'. Ya know?
I am a little worried that she didn't show any real interest in you, but if you go back a second time, she might be more inclined to get to want to know you further.
Let us know how you get on?
Good luck.
Eve :-)
I did that and stuffed up. I saw a profile I was interested in, the guy said to contact him, I waited too long and now his profile is down and I can't get in touch. I'm kicking myself over it!
maybe she couldnt engage in a longer conversation b/c she was working. there's a possibility...