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What should I do?
| Mon, 07-26-2004 - 9:31pm |
I went on a few dates with someone, we also have talked many many times on the phone, and have e-mailed each other back and forth. He is a very caring and kind man, personality wise he is about any womans dream guy, including mine. Now physically there is nothing and I mean nothing at all. Weight is usually not an issue to me but he is very overweight, to the point that it gets in the way of daily living. I know that this will go no where. How do I tell him this? He I feel thinks this is much, much more then what I feel it is. I know he has talked about future, children, etc. He is head over heels for me, I believe. Please, please help. I really do not want to hurt him because he really is a kind person and I know he will be hurt no matter how I tell him but I want to try to hurt him as less as possible.
Thanks so much!!!
DEE

The sooner you do this, the better. Freeing him to find someone who is attracted to him is the kindest thing you can do for him.
Sheri