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What should I do??
| Fri, 07-16-2004 - 12:52pm |
My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months and have not really talked about how we feel about each other.We've met each other's families and friends. Lately he has been joking about how he doesn't have a ring on his finger and how no one has proposed to him this year. I asked if he was serious but he says he's just joking. He also asks where this is going a lot but when I ask him if he means it,he says he's just joking again. I left him a note at his house the other day saying I love him and he did not even mention it. Should I just back off?? Any advise would be helpful!!

Your b/f sounds like he's either playing with your emotions...or has NO REAL ONES OF HIS OWN?
In a way...it's a 'safety valve' when a man can keep a woman guessing. Unfortunately, most women usually want immediate answers to questions like: "when"---"where"---"how long" and "what's up?" Judging from several other posts on this board...Pianoguy can easily see that many women get VERY FRUSTRATED when there aren't any answers to these words or phrases!
Would you care for a suggestion???
Next time your b/f asks the question: "where is our relationship going"----ask him right back: "WHERE WOULD YOU LIKE IT TO GO?" Then...be prepared for a lot of hesitation (from him), but say nothing else until he gives you some sort of logical or illogical answer.
It's amazing how uncomfortable ANY man can get---when the woman sitting next to him says ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!
Pianoguy
Except I would tell him "No where, fast" after not responding to an I Love You.