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what should I do?
| Sun, 04-18-2004 - 4:39am |
I like this man who I have had sex (twice) with. But he dosen't like me in that way and only wants to be friends but have casual sex. However, he hasn't been calling me as much as I would like. I did ask him recently if he had a date, and I have been acting a little clingy. Do you guys think I'm losing him?? We have been corresponding only on-line lately (last 2 weeks) and he hasn't asked to see me again for sex ( the last time was about 2 weeks ago). Am I losing him, or will a man continue to have sex with a "friend" as long as it's offered? Should I initiate our next meeting? He did say he likes sex very much with me and he likes my company. And is it possible for a casual sex relationship to turn into a romantic one even if the man says initially that he only wants to be friends??

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Well, he is being honest with you - he's only interested in a "friends with benefits" arrangment. Since you're interested in more, it's not a good arrangement for you. Sex when you're emotionally involved and he's not is painful for a woman. You're not "losing" him - you don't "have" him.
It would be wise (for your heart) for you to stop seeing him and concentrate on finding someone who will return your feelings.
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