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what should i do now?
| Tue, 03-16-2004 - 1:42pm |
Hello to all,
I don't know if you remember but i wrote the disscusion about " what's this guy's game?" He would never return my calls. any ways i decided not to call him. i haven't call him since. yesterday he call me and i didn't pick up. he didn't leave a message. I'm not sure if i should call him back? should i let him call me again then pick up. or should i return the call. I'm thinking i shouldn't cause if i do it's going to start all over again.
I don't know if you remember but i wrote the disscusion about " what's this guy's game?" He would never return my calls. any ways i decided not to call him. i haven't call him since. yesterday he call me and i didn't pick up. he didn't leave a message. I'm not sure if i should call him back? should i let him call me again then pick up. or should i return the call. I'm thinking i shouldn't cause if i do it's going to start all over again.

You're totally welcome about the advice!
I had the same situation as yours. The guy I am dating did not call me after the first date 3 weeks after that. I was about to decide to let him go. Then he called and invited me out. I gave him the second chance and agreed to go out with him again. Thing comes back.....he has not called me for 3 weeks. Is he acting wierd? I can't understand him. What am I going to do if he calls me again? I am thinking that I will go out with him b/c I am still interested in him, but will act like friends, not dates anymore to give him a hint that he did something wrong in the relationship. Do you think so?
Guys can also be real unaware of the passage of time. I agree, when I like a guy, it's hard to wait, and not have weekly plans to count on, but what's wrong with seeing someone else in between?
Just my thoughts.
Good luck!
So you went on a second date with him and he didn't call you after that for 3wks again? If that's the case it sounds like he is not sure what he wants to do about the two of you yet. And also since you guys are just starting out he might be taking things as seriously as you. I'm sure he's interested but not as interested as you so you should definitely keep your options open. If he wants to hang out again then fine because you still are interested but don't try to fool yourself into thinking that he is as serious about you as you are him.