what should i do? Please help!
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what should i do? Please help!
| Mon, 08-23-2004 - 2:23pm |
when we first started dating he was very sweet and good to me, he still is. I thought he would take things slow with me and i didn't realize how expericed he was until now. we have been dating a little more than a month. I really like him but he keeps touching me in sexual ways and i like it. I don't know why, But i am scared he is going to dump me. He is much more experienced than i am. That scares me too, because that means he did this stuff with his other girlfriends he has had in the past. Im not sure if i should tell him to slow things down or just let him do what he wants. I want this relationship to last what would be the best thing to do?

Speaking on behalf of the males who might be reading your post, Pianoguy knows that nearly every man will try to get as far as he possibly can with any desirable woman (like yourself)! BUT...if our touching, fondling, over-aggressive behavior bothers you...the words you say are: STOP IT...OR I'M GOING HOME!
If you are worried that you're giving your b/f 'too much too soon'---then "DON'T GIVE INTO HIM" (This was a Gary Puckett/Union Gap tune that got limited radio airplay back in the 70s).
The man you're seeing might have a lot of experience...
But if he has NO "R-E-S-P-E-C-T" for you...and your limits...you'll probably end up hurt by him...and ANGRY at the rest of the men on this planet! So if you don't want this type of 'forced attention'---tell your b/f to COOL IT!
Pianoguy