What should I do/or can i do?

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Registered: 07-29-2004
What should I do/or can i do?
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Mon, 09-06-2004 - 11:49pm
Okay...so about a yr ago i broke up with a guy that i have known for years because it was the wrong time and wrong place. During that summer, i was on summer break from school, so i wasnt looking for anything serious cause id soon leave and be back at school. During the summer i ran inot this boy,chris, who i knew from 7th grade, and we hit it off. It was one of those things that there has always been something, and this was a time we could explore. I really like him and he asked my friends everything and even told them that he knew i was taking it a day at a time but he planed on it going further. Well it didnt work out that way...of course once i headed back to school it didnt last.

I talked to him once a month or whenever we ran into each other.

Now about a week ago i talked to him online, which he HATES to do and whenever i did in the past the conversation lasted like 5 minutes. This one lasted a good 30minutes, catching up basically. He gave me his number told me to call and i did the same. THe next day my roomate was talking to his brother, there good friends, and his brother told my roomate that chris was on the outs with his gf she was too clingy, and that he was interested in me once agina.

Two days later i talked to Chris agian on the computer for an hr talking about everything and anything. I was shocked. Friday Night i decided to call him since i was in the area and see if he wanted to have some drinks. We talked on the phone for 30min then he todl me hed let me go and ahve fun but that i was to call him on my way home no matter what time... i called him babck at 3am talked for a while.

That was the last time i talked to him. His mother is upset that he broke up with me along with his little bro.they both told me this.

What does this mean and what should i do?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 09-07-2004 - 10:19am
sweet05....

Pianoguy wishes he could offer words of encouragement because right now: "Chris is probably more than a little...err...confused?"

He might be 'bummed out' about the breakup with the EX...so he turned to you for some conversation and 'emotional support!' This DOESN'T mean your 'chats' are going to lead to anything more! Irregardless of the fact that Chris' Mom and Little Brother may think you've been the BEST PERSON in Chris' life....CHRIS HAS TO START TO ACT LIKE A BIG BOY AND DECIDE IF HE HONESTLY WANTS TO RENEW THE RELATIONSHIP YOU ONCE HAD TOGETHER.

So don't make any advances or phone calls....it's HIS turn to make the next move!

Pianoguy