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What should I think
| Thu, 03-11-2004 - 4:27pm |
I posted this on the 20-something Hangout but I thought I might get a different response on this board.
I am new here. I have currently gotten out of a four year relationship. I have not been single in quite awhile and I need help.
I met this guy in the gym. We talk everyday and I really thought that he was kind of into me. (I am kind-of into him) He had burned a CD for me and we were talking about it and I just said hey do you want to hang out sometime? He said "We'll see." then he asked if I was going to this local bar that I go to on Thursday's? He said that he was going.
Can somebody tell me what that means. It is like he turned me down and then turned around and asked me out. What should I do? Should I go tonight? Can someone help me with what he is thinking???

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I don't think he feels the same as you do right now. He probably wants to feel you out first.
Just don't fall into the trap if he asks to take you home. It may be only for a sex romp. Go slow, find out his intentions first.
I guess I just need to find the least uncomfortable way to deal with this situation.
barbiedollone, you are taking something simple and making it complicated. He asked if you were going to be there - you either are or you aren't. But, that really doesn't matter unless you are going there with the prime purpose of seeing him, which you aren't. Now, there is nothing between you two at this point except for a mild attraction and a few conversations.
Sooooooooo, go there on Thursday night and enjoy it. If you see him treat him as an aquanitance, that is just someone you have met and have had a conversation with. There are no commitments, no proposals or
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