what is this supposed to mean?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-05-2004
what is this supposed to mean?
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Sun, 10-24-2004 - 7:51pm
I met this guy a few weeks ago, who seems to be a nice, decent guy.

The thing is he's told me a couple of times that he's an a$$hole. Now, he's never done anything to me that I'd consider to be "a$$hole behaviour" and when I ask him for clarification on why he thinks this, he has never been able to give me an answer.

What is he trying to tell me by saying this?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-22-2004
Sun, 10-24-2004 - 10:14pm
That he's an a..hole. Don't ignore the words from a guy who's telling you something upfront. Remember women tend to ignore the warning signs in the beginning when dating a guy, so once were all emotional into them, those signs we once saw are ignored and it's harder to get out of the relationship.Listen to what he's saying, so you won't get your feelings hurt, trust me, it will help you. Good luck!
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-24-2004
Mon, 10-25-2004 - 7:16am
run, dont walk, to the nearest exit... lol... he is what he says he is... either that or hes challenging you to change him into a likeable a-hole... you do know that there are two kinds of a-holes dont you?... theres nice ones and rotten ones... lmao... stop seeing him... stop calling him... stop everything... delete his #... trust me... the a-hole will be at your feet, if thats what you want... and if he asks you why you dont want to see him anymore, or your not calling him, tell him!... "you told me your an a-hole!... why the hell would i want to waste my time with someone like that"?... lol... its the truth isnt it?... give the dingaling a reality check...