WHAT IN THE WORLD IS GOING ON!

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-14-2004
WHAT IN THE WORLD IS GOING ON!
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Thu, 09-02-2004 - 10:04am
I'VE BEEN GOING OUT WITH THIS GUY FOR ABOUT 3 MONTHS IN THE BEGINNING I REALLY TOOK MY TIME WITH HIM, AND IN THE PROCESS I LET HIM WINE AND DINE ME NEVER LET HIM KISS,ONLY HUGS HE'S THE TYPE OF GUY WHO HAS MONEY AND GIRLS ARE ALL OVER HIM, SO I JUST PLAYED COOL.HE WOULD CALL ME ALL THE TIME &TEXT MESSAGE ME (HE'S A VERY BUSY GUY) HE OWNS A STORE, ETC. (I'M 25 AND HE'S 31), SO AFETR WE BECAME INTIMATE THINGS WERE THE SAME FOR AWHILE AND NOW HE DOESN'T CALL AS MUCH, HE'S ALWAYS BUSY (WHICH HE'S ALWAYS BEEN, BUT HE FOUND TIME FOR ME NOW IT'S LIKE HE DON'T REALLY MAKE TIME FOR ME), THERE HAS BEEN TIMES HE STOOD ME UP AND I HAVE DONE IT TO HIM TOO ON OCCASIONS, SO ONE DAY I CONFRONTED HIM AND TOLD HIM IF YOU JUST WANTED TO HAVE SEX WITH ME LETS PUT IT OUT THERE WHATS DONE IS DONE. WE MADE PLANS TO SEE ONE ANOTHER AND HE SAID HE'LL BE THERE IN 20 MINUTES AND HE NEVER SHOWED UP, SO I WAS DONE I HAVEN'T TALKED TO HIM SINCE AND HE DIDN'T CALL ME EITHER. I'M NOT FOR ALOT OF !*%$#, WHAT IS GOING ON?
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2003
Thu, 09-02-2004 - 10:10am
Hon, this "busy guy" ia a charmer who wanted/wants sex and nothing else. You're both playing the same "catch if you can" game, but it appears that you're somewhat emotionally invested already. It is possible that he's also dating and having sex with other women so that would explain why he doesn't call or show for dates. I'd move on if you want something deeper than casual sex.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-23-2003
Thu, 09-02-2004 - 10:27am

I think you already know what's going on... you just don't like it.

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Registered: 05-26-2004
Thu, 09-02-2004 - 10:48am
Youve received excellent advice.

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