What would U do?

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Registered: 09-26-2006
What would U do?
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Tue, 11-14-2006 - 2:32pm

I recently reconnected with a guy I met on match.com.

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Tue, 11-14-2006 - 2:48pm

Well, gosh, I sure would not call someone and expect them to be free at the last minute and be upset if that weren't the case!!!

I think you have a distorted idea of the difference between game-playing and allowing a man to show his interest by pursuing you. There's no game-playing necessary if you do the latter.

You don't need to be MIA--you just need to wait for him to call you back and ask you out. If he's interested, he will.

Sheri

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 11-14-2006 - 5:15pm

It could be that he thinks YOU are the one playing games, since you initially gave him the boot and now you've changed your mind.

What I would do is let him know I'm interested (which you've done) and then go about my business until a time when/if I hear from him.

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Wed, 11-15-2006 - 2:49pm

Letting things happen at a natural pace and living your life fully while you're dating someone is not games.

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Registered: 09-26-2006
Wed, 11-15-2006 - 5:48pm

Sandra:


You are so right I seem to lose all sanity when I start dating someone I really like.

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Registered: 11-13-2006
Thu, 11-16-2006 - 1:59pm

I totally agree with Sheri and SandraDee.


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Jilly

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Registered: 10-17-2002
Thu, 11-16-2006 - 4:03pm

Hon, it's not GAMES to have a life and to not let your entire being revolve around a guy that you've been on a few dates with.

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Sun, 11-19-2006 - 9:18pm
Yeah it's annoying but you haven't been dating that long where you're a fully fledged couple. So don't feel rejected but do pull back and wait for him to make the next move. In the meantime you can go cruising online!
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