What would you do.... any opnion counts?
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| Wed, 07-04-2007 - 3:43am |
I am 21 yrs old and have been seriously dating to a 20 years old guy for almost 2 yrs now. We are happily in love and we don't have any major issues. We trust each other. And my problem is not him, it's me.
Before I met him I was talking to this guy I met at a party. He was cute and also nice. I decided to date my now bf back then and decide to stay friend with the guy I met before my bf. I haven't hang out with him since I started dating my bf. We would talk on line or text message. Things are on platonic level with a little bit of flirting.
fast forward... He ask me to come hang out with his friends and him. He'd been asking me since we meet. He'd never ask me to go on date on anything. Just to hang out. I'd always say No because I am afriad my bf would get jealous. He doesn't know the guy personally. He only met him once.
I want to hang out with the guy because I consider him to be my friend. But deep down, I am attracted to the guy but I don't want to ruin the perfect relationship I have.
Does people attracted to other people aside from their significant others? I think it's normal to be attracted to someone but don't follow with action is normal right?
confused,
ukia

I guess, it is just the thought of grass is always greener on the other side. I keep on thinking what if's lately. I have never done anything with the other guy. I would not allow myself to. I love my bf and won't bear to see him hurt. I just wish my thoughts of what if's would stop.
Thank you for your input.
ukia
I hang out with the guy finally to get over all the craziness in my head. I realise that I only like him as a friend. Don't get me wrong, he is a nice guy and a very good looking indeed but the whole time i was at his place hanging out, all i could think of was how great my bf is. I am actually glad that I hang out with him. :) My bf know that I hang out with him and he didn't mind.
Thanks for your help.
ukia