WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?????

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-22-2004
WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?????
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Tue, 09-14-2004 - 2:09pm
OK i am 23 yrs old and i have been dating a guy for 5 months. He is great but I cant seem to just throw myself in him. Sometimes i really like him and other times he drives me nuts. What is going on with me???? I think about him all the time. I have a daughter who still sees her dad. We ended because he did drugs and when he went through treatment i got m chance to say see you later. anyway am i holding back because of the manipulation on my last bf. Help!!!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2003
Tue, 09-14-2004 - 2:37pm
Yes, you probably are. And you're scared of being hurt again and you're scared of trusting again. Now if there are legitimate reasons about this guy that you pull back from him- warning signs of certain behaviours, then pay attention to them. If they are just run of the mill annoyances, everyone has those. But on the other hand, if you just feel that you're with him for a lack of anything better to do, then you should end it, to be fair to him.

Good luck

Alison

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