Whats the best way to forget a guy?
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Whats the best way to forget a guy?
| Sat, 05-13-2006 - 2:09pm |
Whats the best way to forget about a guy and start dating again?
My last relationship ended on a rather sour note and that was 3 months back. And ever since then I've been having a hard time forgetting about him and the whole relationship.
These days I really don't know what to do with myself and it sure is lonely.
I too want to start dating again and I've met with some rather nice guys as well... but then I do not even have zero percent motivation or interest to go out with them. Maybe its just because I still care about my ex... I don't know...
So... how do I forget about him and get back to the dating scene?

Hi levanter!
Pianoguy can definitely relate to your post....because HE'D LIKE TO START DATING AGAIN TOO! There are a few personal issues...but I'll spare you!
In your case, it has been 3 months since the split.....so give yourself permission to socialize again! Join friends for a "group night out" doing something that all of you enjoy? If you meet up with "several NEW somebody's"---approach each one STRICTLY FOR FRIENDSHIP PURPOSES ONLY! Don't read anything more into the friendship
Sadly...this is where many women blow it with men. They're thinking about a trusseau along with the number of rugrats they'd like to have. WHY RUSH THE PROCESS?
If you decide to settle on a good friendship with somebody...get to know that person as a friend! Observe the good and bad habits he has. . After 3 or more months, you should have a clearer picture as to whether you want to take your 'friendship' to another level?
Something for ALL WOMEN to think about! The better you get to know us....COMMUNICATE WITH US! Men AREN'T mind readers! All this crap about how we're supposed to know what you're feeling and what pleases you is basically garbage! You can certainly drop a subtle hint or two without pointing a pistol at us and saying: "BUY ME THIS DIAMOND BROACH OR ELSE!"
Now if something about us REALLY bothers you...spill it! Most of us will make an honest effort to fix the problem. HOWEVER...if you want to vent and complain about everything under the sun...whether we're involved or not...you already know we'll gradually "tune you out!"
Since every woman is special (in her own way), the "one size fits all" theory doesn't apply! Besides...isn't that the real reason most men decide to 'forsake all others' in the first place?
Pianoguy