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whats the crack
| Sat, 12-18-2004 - 2:48pm |
hi i was just wanting somebodies elses point of view on this, so please could you take the time to post a reply,many thanks!
i broke up with my partner 8mths ago,he left me and his 2 kids to go off with someone else,to say i was devastated would be an under statement. he has tried it on with me a few times since sometimes i gave in (pathetic, i know) but now i dont.
he moved in with this girl then moved out and it has continued like this for some time.he is now on his own but still going with her as far as i know.
he keeps asking me what is going on in my life, have i been with anybody,am i seeing anybody.i told him i was and since then all he does is ask me questions to which i tell him its none of his business, now he keeps phoning me up for no reason,he has just booked a family night out for us all and expects me to go. why is he suddenly wanting to spend time with me when we didnt go out as a family before. my friend thinks that he sees me moving on with my life and he doesnt like it, but when i told him i had somebody else he said he was pleased(although i do believe he was shocked and i know he couldnt really say anything else)i want to move on with my life but every time i move forward he steps in flutters his eyelashes and then im back to square one,please dont tell me i still have feelings for him, i dont want to!!!!how could he still be with her but be jealous of me getting on with my life.......thanks for taking the time to read this, 8mths is long enough to dwell on one fella
i broke up with my partner 8mths ago,he left me and his 2 kids to go off with someone else,to say i was devastated would be an under statement. he has tried it on with me a few times since sometimes i gave in (pathetic, i know) but now i dont.
he moved in with this girl then moved out and it has continued like this for some time.he is now on his own but still going with her as far as i know.
he keeps asking me what is going on in my life, have i been with anybody,am i seeing anybody.i told him i was and since then all he does is ask me questions to which i tell him its none of his business, now he keeps phoning me up for no reason,he has just booked a family night out for us all and expects me to go. why is he suddenly wanting to spend time with me when we didnt go out as a family before. my friend thinks that he sees me moving on with my life and he doesnt like it, but when i told him i had somebody else he said he was pleased(although i do believe he was shocked and i know he couldnt really say anything else)i want to move on with my life but every time i move forward he steps in flutters his eyelashes and then im back to square one,please dont tell me i still have feelings for him, i dont want to!!!!how could he still be with her but be jealous of me getting on with my life.......thanks for taking the time to read this, 8mths is long enough to dwell on one fella

Ever hear that saying that you always want what you can't have? Your friend is correct. He sees you moving on and doesn't want to see that happen. His words mean nothing--take them with a grain of salt.
Do what you need to in order to keep your children happy and knowing their father. But also do what you need to in order to move forward with your dating life. This guys seems like a runner and if you get involved again, he'll probably wind up running again (unless he has undergone counseling or some life-altering changes).
Good luck.