Whats a girl to do- need one more thing!
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Whats a girl to do- need one more thing!
| Sun, 02-29-2004 - 9:28am |
Okay I told all you guys about my boyfriend how i have many reasons to believe he is cheating on me. Okay so the night he left my house at 9 pm he never called me back until 330 am for his work clothes. I gave him one set of clothes for work no clothes to sleep in etc. OKay so yesterday morning he came to my house he spent the day here. We sat in all day and watched tv and talked... didnt get much accomplished. We bowl with my boss from work. I dont want to screw my team over cause he screwed up. So we went bowling together last night and he dropped me off after. I asked him to stay at my house so i had a little comfort and he said no. I didnt know what the big deal was cause he was going to his sisters to sleep or sleeping at my house. I called him as soon as I got in my house and he was at the top of my street. We talked for a few minutes and then he hung up on me cause he didnt want to sit on the phone for 5 hours last night when all he was doing was going to stay at his sisters house... what was the big deal with that? Whats the difference if he sits on the phone with me last night for 5 hours or takes up my whole day today for 5 hours? If I meant anything to him he would of talked to me about things last night right? I called him back a lil bit later after I came on here and checked my replies from here. He didnt answer his cell phone. If he was at his sisters house it wouldnt of been a problem for him to answer his cell phone dont you think so? What is the difference..huh?
One more thing.. this is for the women. When I called that girl the other night when he left my house, I think she lied to me. I think he did talk to her the night he left my house because when he came over yesterday morning he was yelling at me for it. He told me her boyfriend called him yelling at him but that he was lucky because he coached her boyfriend in baseball when he was younger. What was my boyfriend 5 yrs old or something cause my bf is almost 25 this girl is 19.How can he coach her boyfriend with that kind of age difference? Last thing i want to know... when I called her why would she lie to me about it... what does she have to lose? Im the one losing the man I care about truly and deeply. Whom Ive been with for 4.5 years. Any responses back would be appreciated.
Thanks COnfused
One more thing.. this is for the women. When I called that girl the other night when he left my house, I think she lied to me. I think he did talk to her the night he left my house because when he came over yesterday morning he was yelling at me for it. He told me her boyfriend called him yelling at him but that he was lucky because he coached her boyfriend in baseball when he was younger. What was my boyfriend 5 yrs old or something cause my bf is almost 25 this girl is 19.How can he coach her boyfriend with that kind of age difference? Last thing i want to know... when I called her why would she lie to me about it... what does she have to lose? Im the one losing the man I care about truly and deeply. Whom Ive been with for 4.5 years. Any responses back would be appreciated.
Thanks COnfused

Is she lying? Only she would know but chances are she has a good reason to lie--doens't want to get caught up in a girlfriend coming after her. Is he cheating? Don't know but he is giving off suspicious behavior...
What to do? Well a few others told you to drop him but you said you won't so what else is there to really say?
If I were you I would seek the advice of a therapist--somewhere along the lines you forgot what you were worth and it's time to get that back.
Hope this helps.
You are missing the forest for the trees - you are focusing on all of these trivial details that are irrelevant - the only issue is - do you trust him - if you do, then you need to restrain yourself from obsessing over this stuff - and you won't because you will decide to trust him - if you don't trust him, you shouldn't be with him.