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| Sat, 03-01-2008 - 2:38pm |
Well,kind of long story Ill see how short I can keep it.
I started dating a guy that I hadn't seen in years. We went to school together but really were not friends then. It has been 12years since then. Anyway,we started talking to each other on Myspace back in the fall. He asked me out in November and we went on a few dates after that and all seemed to be going well.We talked online and on the phone several times a day. Before I knew it I was staying over at his place a couple of times a week. We both work odd hours so it might have been 3am but we still made the time to see each other. Fast forward to today. We talk maybe 1-2 times a week. I haven't spent any time with him in about a month. The last two times I saw him was when he stopped by my workplace. And today I called him and he seemed less than interested to talk to me.
A little background on him though: he's got three kids and is going through a divorce.Ive never met the kids. He had his kids today and seemed a little preoccupied so maybe that's why he didn't want to talk today,but it's never been an issue before. He just sounded irritated that I had called him. He is also turning 30 this weekend. He works very full time and also a full time college student. It's just a little weird to me because we used to make time to see each other when we could. I don't know if it's me or if he's just stressed out and I shouldn't take it personally. When we do talk and have a good conversation he is still very sweet and flirty and giving me compliments all the time so it doesn't seem that he's not interested.We both have this weekend off and even with his birthday I doubt we will see each other.
So anyway,I am just confused and wonder what's going on. I feel myself getting way to attached already and if it's fizzling out I just want to know so I can move on. I don't know how to ask him though. Any help would be appreciated.
I started dating a guy that I hadn't seen in years. We went to school together but really were not friends then. It has been 12years since then. Anyway,we started talking to each other on Myspace back in the fall. He asked me out in November and we went on a few dates after that and all seemed to be going well.We talked online and on the phone several times a day. Before I knew it I was staying over at his place a couple of times a week. We both work odd hours so it might have been 3am but we still made the time to see each other. Fast forward to today. We talk maybe 1-2 times a week. I haven't spent any time with him in about a month. The last two times I saw him was when he stopped by my workplace. And today I called him and he seemed less than interested to talk to me.
A little background on him though: he's got three kids and is going through a divorce.Ive never met the kids. He had his kids today and seemed a little preoccupied so maybe that's why he didn't want to talk today,but it's never been an issue before. He just sounded irritated that I had called him. He is also turning 30 this weekend. He works very full time and also a full time college student. It's just a little weird to me because we used to make time to see each other when we could. I don't know if it's me or if he's just stressed out and I shouldn't take it personally. When we do talk and have a good conversation he is still very sweet and flirty and giving me compliments all the time so it doesn't seem that he's not interested.We both have this weekend off and even with his birthday I doubt we will see each other.
So anyway,I am just confused and wonder what's going on. I feel myself getting way to attached already and if it's fizzling out I just want to know so I can move on. I don't know how to ask him though. Any help would be appreciated.

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Hon, I'm sorry this has happened, but I think you need to just let it go.
It is rough getting involved with someone divorcing who has so many things going on in his life.
Hi Aunt Nenny,
Welcome to the board!!
I dated someone similar to you.
An idea:
Sorry you had a bad weekend and that this hurts so much!!!
Hang in there you will make it through all of this.
Just read your posts and I'm so sorry you
YG
http://twodatediva.blogspot.com/
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