What's he thinking?

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Registered: 03-29-2004
What's he thinking?
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Thu, 04-08-2004 - 5:09pm
ok, so i'm friends with this guy who sits behind me in class and the only problem is i like him more than a friend. Anyways, for the past week he's been talking about how his first baseball game is coming up and how he'll get to leave class early. So, on the day of his game, right before he leaves, I scribble out a quick note that says good luck and has a picture of a baseball and bat. I tear it out and give it to him. Say good luck dude, and turn around. However, as i'm turning around he says something really quick and when I turn around to ask what he said he just grins and won't tell me. And then i see him put the note in his folder before he even looked at it. The next day, we completely ignored each other. We didn't even say hi even though we were in class together. Today, was a little better, but it wasn't like it used to be. Does he know I like him, (I would have given him a note regardless if i liked him or not) and how do i act around him now.

This ignoring thing is really frustrating me, please help!

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-13-2003
Thu, 04-08-2004 - 5:16pm
How old are you?
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2003
Thu, 04-08-2004 - 5:41pm

zipzopzap,


When in doubt (as you apparently are)... ASK! Don't assume, don't ignore, don't worry, don't fret...just ASK!


What is he thinking? Only he knows...


tg

 
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-29-2004
Fri, 04-09-2004 - 10:30am
I'm 20. And another question, if I actually get the nerve to ask him what he thinks....How do i bring up that subject and how do i word that question?

Thanks for your help!
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-07-2004
Fri, 04-09-2004 - 3:48pm
Just take a deep breath and talk with him either before or after class. Say something like- hey, I was wondering if we could hang out sometime. catch a movie, study something together. You've got the perfect oppurtunity being in a class with him. If he says he's not interested, then at worst you sit blushing for a couple of days and will least have had your answer. And who knows? Even if he turns you down, he could reconsider later. Good luck.