What's up with him?
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What's up with him?
| Thu, 12-07-2006 - 6:09pm |
I've been dating a guy I really like for 4 months and last week he gave me a reflective armband so that when I exercise in the morning, I'm visible to cars, etc. This is the first and only gift I've gotten from him. No cards, no cute little mementos of anything--- nothing.
What's worse? It was in Christmas gift wrap and he actually told me that he debated about whether to give it to me now or then!!!
What's the deal?
Not a golddigger!

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Awww, I agree with the others, I think it was super sweet of him to think to give you something like that.
I agree, that gift is EXTREMELY thoughtful without going overboard. I would be very flattered because it shows that he thinks about you when you're not around, and he cares about your safety. Much better than some standard flashy thing, in my opinion. I got a gift from my BF of 9 months last week that made me go all squishy. It's his old scientific calculator, because I'm getting a science degree (and he got a fancy new one). He spent 1/2 showing me how it works and what it can do, and told me it's a top of the line machine that will get me all the way through my undergrad. Now THAT to me is romantic, cause it's so thoughtful, and of course because it was his and got him through HIS undergrad, it's that much more special.
I think the armband gift was very thoughtful.
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