What's his Deal?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-01-2003
What's his Deal?
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Fri, 06-18-2004 - 8:54pm
Hi, I started kinda talking to this guy who is a friend of a friend. He came out clearly that he was interested in me, and it was mutual for me. We haven't chilled alone yet besides when the other guys leave us alone for a while. He always holding me and kissing me when we're together, and when we went to the beach he even wrote our name real big in the sand in a heart, and does other cute things as such. He told me straight out that he likes me, and he wants to see me just us. So the problem is...he doesn't call me, pick up his phone or return my calls. When we meet up it's usually through another friend. I'm really confused on what his deal is, because usually when someone likes me they call, you know? I feel really stupid calling him and him not responding. Does anybody have any ideas? Should i bother to keep pursuing or forget it? I really like him, but am at the age where i am tired of games.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-07-2004
Fri, 06-18-2004 - 9:36pm
I'd move on. It's nice to have the attention paid to you...but if he doesn't bother to try to make any plans with you, by phone or in person, then yeah, move on. And when you do see him again, stop the touchy-feely stuff. Don't put out anything physical unless he's willing to be more responsive mentally.

Good luck

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-26-2004
Tue, 06-22-2004 - 1:09pm
You dont identify your age, however if its over the age of 15, I wouldnt pursue it.
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