whats his deal? plz read and reply
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whats his deal? plz read and reply
| Thu, 06-10-2004 - 7:31pm |
hey everyone,
my name is michelle and i am 19 female at work my male coworker and I were jokingly hitting each other and he scratched me....I pointed it out to him and told him it hurt, and he kissed his fingers and touched the spot where it hurt...one of the other female coworkers were next to me and looked at me funny when he did that....he is 21 by the way...anyway, we were also talking about how tired we were and he said that he woke up early, and i asked him why and he turned red, and was hesitant to tell me, he said his female friend slept over, and she had to go to work early....so i asked him so so u drove her? and hes like no she just had the alarm set early so it woke him up...we flirt a lot at work, and a few other ppl are sayin that he likes me or w/e...he isnt like this to the other girls, hes nice to them but thats all.. if i smile at him he turns red sometimes and smiles back...he makes fun of me because i started to hang out with my ex boyfriend, even though i tell him that its over and im not getting back with him! he finally stopped teasing me for that...anyway, theres more than that but....my question is a) does he like me, b) if he does then why does he talk about his female friends like that? he told me before theyd be jealous but that they shouldn't worry because hes not goung out w/ them (he mentioned it twice too!) the problem lies here:: one of my coworkers told me him and this other coworker girl were talkin bout me and then she goes "dont u find her annoying?" and he goes "who michelle?" and she goes "yeah" he pauses and goes "yeah, sometimes i just wanna slap her" .. and it realy hurt, i confronted him about it, and he said "yeah i mite have called u annoying, but i mean, u call me annoying" im like "yeah but i say it to ur face and u when i say it im just kidding" and he kept saying sorry, that he doesnt find me annoying. i go yeah if u didnt mean it u wouldnt have said it behind my back, true rite?...i told the coworker whom i got this info from and she said that she still thinks he likes me? i dunno, what do u think....two girls say we have a connection...if he found me annoying, he wouldnt be talking to me and talkin bout whats goin on his life, or whatnot, he comes up to me alotta times and just talks, or makes jokes with me, or "fights" with me.. i dunno.... sorry so long,please reply... thanks a lot
-michelle :(
my name is michelle and i am 19 female at work my male coworker and I were jokingly hitting each other and he scratched me....I pointed it out to him and told him it hurt, and he kissed his fingers and touched the spot where it hurt...one of the other female coworkers were next to me and looked at me funny when he did that....he is 21 by the way...anyway, we were also talking about how tired we were and he said that he woke up early, and i asked him why and he turned red, and was hesitant to tell me, he said his female friend slept over, and she had to go to work early....so i asked him so so u drove her? and hes like no she just had the alarm set early so it woke him up...we flirt a lot at work, and a few other ppl are sayin that he likes me or w/e...he isnt like this to the other girls, hes nice to them but thats all.. if i smile at him he turns red sometimes and smiles back...he makes fun of me because i started to hang out with my ex boyfriend, even though i tell him that its over and im not getting back with him! he finally stopped teasing me for that...anyway, theres more than that but....my question is a) does he like me, b) if he does then why does he talk about his female friends like that? he told me before theyd be jealous but that they shouldn't worry because hes not goung out w/ them (he mentioned it twice too!) the problem lies here:: one of my coworkers told me him and this other coworker girl were talkin bout me and then she goes "dont u find her annoying?" and he goes "who michelle?" and she goes "yeah" he pauses and goes "yeah, sometimes i just wanna slap her" .. and it realy hurt, i confronted him about it, and he said "yeah i mite have called u annoying, but i mean, u call me annoying" im like "yeah but i say it to ur face and u when i say it im just kidding" and he kept saying sorry, that he doesnt find me annoying. i go yeah if u didnt mean it u wouldnt have said it behind my back, true rite?...i told the coworker whom i got this info from and she said that she still thinks he likes me? i dunno, what do u think....two girls say we have a connection...if he found me annoying, he wouldnt be talking to me and talkin bout whats goin on his life, or whatnot, he comes up to me alotta times and just talks, or makes jokes with me, or "fights" with me.. i dunno.... sorry so long,please reply... thanks a lot
-michelle :(

he's an adult. if he wants to ask you out, he will.
if he doesn't, he won't.
all the rest is gravy.
also, stop talking to all the girls at work about him.
Secondly, this guy is teasing/playing with you. Enjoy it for what its worth and don't read so much into it. If wanted to date you, he'd ask you out (but you work together so that would be akward and difficult). And I don't understand why you like him when he's talking about women sleeping over and "friends"...he sounds like a player...and you obviously know it bc you are asking the question: if he likes me, why is talking about these other women to me? Answer: just bc he is attracted to you, interested in chatting w/you doesn't mean he is going to date you, respect you and treat you with the decency you deserve.
Go.