Whats wrong with him

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Registered: 02-29-2004
Whats wrong with him
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Tue, 03-30-2004 - 1:22pm
i dont know whats going on...my boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago..it was a relationship of about 1 year and 3 motnhs...it was over the phone...when i asked why..he just told me that he didnt know..but that he had been feeling like this for awhile..i see him usually at the shows that we go to..and he says hi and i say hi back..and thats it..he lost alot of weight...and i really dont know what s going on..i dont know what to do..?
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Registered: 03-31-2003
Tue, 03-30-2004 - 4:18pm
well, you know he broke up with you ... because he felt like it. I agree that it would have been nice of him to give you a better explanation of why he felt he needed to break up. But it's been a month now, hon. I think it's time to stop worrying about what's wrong with him... unless you're worried that he is sick. If you have any suspicion that his weight loss is due to a communicable disease, go get yourself checked out. It's not likely. It's probably something going on in his personal life, and you cannot do anything about that. Nor should you want to.

Get on with YOUR life. If you can't avoid running into him, just continue saying "hi" and try to leave it at that. I know that's hard to do when you see someone regularly, but just remember how he made you feel by breaking up with you over phone, without a decent explanation. THAT should inspire you to move on.

Good luck.