What's your opinion?

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Registered: 05-05-2004
What's your opinion?
Thu, 05-06-2004 - 10:25am
GUYS,

If you betrayed the trust of someone you were dating, by writing to other woman, even if you hadn't done anything physical, would you feel guilty about having your partner of 7 months find out? What would you do then? Would you try to make ammends, break it off or act like you didn't do anything wrong? Or would you do something else altogether?

What if a guy's girlfriend finds out about his attempt at infidelity and then he appologizes profusely and says he's sorry. Does he really mean it or is he just sorry he got caught? What if he says he is sorry, but also says he thinks he's destined to be alone? Is this a cop out or is he trying ease the woman's pain? What if he appologizes and says he'll call on a specfic day to check in with you and see how you are feeling, and then he doesn't call? Is it because he doesn't care? Are guys like that or do guys try to avoid causing pain or being in pain or feeling guilty?

What if all his belongings are at her house? If he is maintaining contact, is it only for the purpose of collecting those things or does he really care about how he has hurt the person? Do guys want to maintain an honest friendship with a woman they were dating after they break up?