when big love is over

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Registered: 10-18-2003
when big love is over
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Wed, 03-01-2006 - 9:58am

it always is a bit strange - when strong feelings u once saw in his eyes are no longer there, when he ignores your calls and doesnt reply ur sms, when u smell in the air that things have changed big time and most importantly - he has changed. and u know its time to leave

so u start to move on with ur life and learn to think of u separate from him. u dont go to "ur" places, u avoid looking at couples hugging on the street and u try to stay positive when thinking about future, ur future

its only 3 days that its over. i've been there - with break ups and "on my own again". so know what i'm supposed to do. its just emotional support that wouldnt hurt me now...

thank you..

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Registered: 05-31-2005
Wed, 03-01-2006 - 10:34am

Hi narg... long time, no see.


I'm sorry to see you under these circumstances. :o( How long were you with him? I won't give you advice since you know what you need to do. Just know that you're in my thoughts and prayers.


*Big hugs*


Kerry

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 03-01-2006 - 12:14pm

narg56...

Pianoguy (who has been single for quite awhile now) understands how the shock of suddenly being alone can bother you....or anybody!

But try to remember that you're not 'sentenced to solitude' for the remainder of your life. As time passes....there will be other men who will enter your life. How long they stay depends upon the 'common-alities' the 2 of you have?

I don't think there's a soul on this board who doesn't relate and sympathize with you right now? So on behalf of the group...I'd like to share a few hugs today.

No question about it....you'll get past this!

Pianoguy

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-18-2003
Wed, 03-01-2006 - 5:25pm

thank you so much, Bklynchik

u have always been there to support me and i really really appreciate it

its been 4 years, its the same guy over and over i posted about - frustrated each time... so i guess this is the last time

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-18-2003
Wed, 03-01-2006 - 5:26pm

:) i promise to be open minded and to erase those bad memories as fast as possible

hugs back

thanks a lot, really

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
Thu, 03-02-2006 - 1:35pm

We;ve all been where you are and are sending cyber hugs and kisses of support. We're here for you 24/7


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