when do i tell him??

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-23-2006
when do i tell him??
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Thu, 03-23-2006 - 1:24pm
I was seeing a guy a few years back we broke up and I moved out he tried to contact me after I moved by calling and he even stopped at my grandparents to see if they knew how to get ahold of me, I was trying to get his contact information online and when I did I found out he got married, I was hurt, well here recently I sent him an email congratulating him on his marriage and he sent me an email back telling me he got divorced a couple of months ago and he asked me if I wanted to go to dinner and a movie to catch up on things, he also told me that he thought of me every once in a while. I still have feelings for him, I always will and I know he just went through a divorce and its to soon for him to start seeing someone else, my question is how will I know its the right time for me to let him know? Thanks
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
Thu, 03-23-2006 - 1:36pm

the right time to let him know what - that you want more than friendship? IT probably is too soon, you don't want to be rebound, you can get together just to catch up but with the understanding that this is all it will be, and if there is something there when he's emotionally ready to pursue it if you're still available that will be great but if you're not that's ok too

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