When does a couple gen move in together?

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Registered: 07-30-2007
When does a couple gen move in together?
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Fri, 10-12-2007 - 7:30pm

My guy and I have been very strong since April this year, we actually started dating last sept-dec, but then I needed a break while I was figuring out me.

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Registered: 11-30-2006
Fri, 10-12-2007 - 9:52pm

I dont know because I have not lived with a man...only been married and divorced twice.

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Registered: 08-26-2007
Sat, 10-13-2007 - 10:49am

I don't know if there is a subtle way to bring this up. If the two of you are close, why not be direct? Just ask what his thoughts are on living together without asking about a time frame.

My SO & I have talked about living together "in the future" but we both have some things that we need to work out before this can happen. I still have a teenage boy at home and my SO needs to get his divorce finalized before we can seriously talk about *when* to move in together. Fortunately for us there is no driving force for us to live together other than the desire to be together more.

LG
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Registered: 10-21-2004
Sat, 10-13-2007 - 3:48pm

See *very detailed* post to your same thread on Mr Answer Man.

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 9:24am

You can use the dogs, lightly as in, gee the dogs are starting to feel more comfortable at your place than at mine.

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