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When his coworkers do this what does it
| Sat, 04-28-2007 - 10:03pm |
When his coworkers do this, when I enter the store what does it mean?
this guy i just started casually dating works at gucci. hes a security guard there. he wasnt there this saturday when i went in, but i was already going in there regardless and let him know in a voicemail. when i went in there, his coworkers that were fellow security guards saw me and smiled at each other and keep looking at me and each other. what does that mean if anything? its tiffanys so its a jewelry store. yes, we slept together
this guy i just started casually dating works at gucci. hes a security guard there. he wasnt there this saturday when i went in, but i was already going in there regardless and let him know in a voicemail. when i went in there, his coworkers that were fellow security guards saw me and smiled at each other and keep looking at me and each other. what does that mean if anything? its tiffanys so its a jewelry store. yes, we slept together

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Nickia2006, I'm a little confused. The store you went into is it gucci or tiffany's? The guy you have posted about recently is the gucci guy right? I'll take this that you went into tiffany's (so this is another guy who you slept with) and the guards kept looking at you and them themselves and smiled.
What I would think, if I were you, was that the tiffany guy mentioned you to his friends and maybe said that you two were an item or had been together once and it is kind of natural to smile when you see the person your friend has mentioned.
Glad to cheer up your day!! :) "i feel if i live tommorow without a preferred day"- what does "preferred" mean in this context? Sorry, again I am confused. Do you mean a designated day by him to see him?
"by the way, umm, can you be the sibling i never had?" - how sweet of you to say! Thank you for the nice compliment. Just post if you need anything.
My life isn't the best and that is why I don't focus on it much on this board. But one day I do hope to date again and it is good to see what the dating scene entails right now. Right now I have been the target of a crime and a group of people, which includes doctors and my second ex husband, have been terrorizing me for a number of years. I don't know if you ever watch Dr. Phil, but on Thursday and Friday this last week they featured a couple and the guy is totally off his rocker and has basically created a prison in the home for his wife. He has gotten her fired from her job so she can be home and he knows where she is and tapes her and hired a team of people to follow her wherever she goes. That is basically my life, except the person who is obsessed with me in this dangerous kind of way is a doctor. I used to be a pharmaceutical sales rep and I met him during the course of work. I didn't know this, but he started to undermine my life from the day I met him in 1997 and made sure that I lost my job, my friends by the end of 2002. He basically took over my life and used people in my life to vandalize my home. That is what I basically do every day now - try to restore a home that got trashed. He hires conctractors to do crappy work and make me miserable. Because the doctor is richer than god, he buys favors from people and then...this is the sick part...after you help him hurt me...he then makes sure you experience what I experienced on some level. So he doesn't reward loyalty, he just makes you fear him too. After I attempted to get a restraining order the violence got worse and holding down a job became impossible so luckily I had savings and my mother helps me. I've recorded a number of police reports, but with no luck and he is a big contributor to the dept, so you can kind of figure where this goes. It sucks being the victim of a rich doctor in a small town in Florida. I can only hope that the people I have asked to help me, actually help me and turn him and his gang of thugs in to the police.
As far as love goes, there really hasn't been any love for me in a number of years because of this guy. Until he goes to jail, which I am still determined to make happen, it really isn't safe for me to date. He has hired a guy or two from my past to date and kiss and tell. Disgusting, isn't it? He is a very disturbed disgusting person who has done this to women in the past and I never knew he was obsessed with me because he didn't behave that way when i would come to their office and bring samples of medication. He never really spoke to me. NO one ever told me he was obsessed with me. I guess they viewed his obsession as normal or harmless - but this type of obsession is dark and violent. They put me in a vacuum many years ago and if someone out there actually liked me and wanted to date me...I would never find out because he would make sure that I would NOT hear anything. So, as long as I am his slave for terror...I'll never be able to date again. Which sucks because I did hope to fall in love at least one more time in this lifetime.
So, now you see why I prefer to focus on everyone else's life besides mine. Hope this was not too much of a downer. I have adapted to what has happened to me so I am functioning just fine. I have learned to keep my own counsel because most people I knew here left me for dead, literally. But I would prefer to be part of the free world again and get a life again.
I wouldn't worry about the date unless he avoids it all together.
Sag's are hard to pin down nickia2006. You might have your hands full honey. I've included a link that you may be interested in reading. Check out the Sag male. The link starts with Aries, because Aries is the first sign of the zodiac. Fire and Air are usually an interesting combination.
http://mizian.com.ne.kr/englishwiz/library/names/zodiac/aries.htm
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