When his coworkers do this what does it

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When his coworkers do this what does it
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Sat, 04-28-2007 - 10:03pm
When his coworkers do this, when I enter the store what does it mean?
this guy i just started casually dating works at gucci. hes a security guard there. he wasnt there this saturday when i went in, but i was already going in there regardless and let him know in a voicemail. when i went in there, his coworkers that were fellow security guards saw me and smiled at each other and keep looking at me and each other. what does that mean if anything? its tiffanys so its a jewelry store. yes, we slept together
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Mon, 04-30-2007 - 5:39pm
Wow, first and foremost I am most definetly happy that you are still alive and somewhat well. That being said, I think it is utterly and horribly cruel for someone to ruin the two things in life that everyone seeems to be able to be in control of: 1. their love life/2. their friendships. To me, everything else in the world is so hard to control so it provides me at least, with some sort of solice/comfort that these are the arenas in whcih I might have some control over the outcome (of course to a certain degree) Therefore, what he did is not only utterly disgusting but it is also a violation of your right to be happy. I think what you have done is not only selfless but very wise as it would be quite hard for you to pursue a dating life. I know that can't be easy for you as you sound like not only an intelligent person, but I just KNOW you're beautiful inside and out, sexy, kind and everything else that a man would want so it hasnt been easy for you. And no, you didn't depress me, on the contrary you actually made me feel like we were getting closer to being even as you have ALWAYS helped me with my dating dilemmas it only feels right that I could possible help you look on the brighter side of yours. I wholeheartdly welcome any information you're willing to give me and I hope that I get more :) I know that it has to be hard for you to stay optimistic as me I'm generally a pessimistic person (especially in my current situation-ill tell you later), but I honestly and truly believe in karma and I think that the time you have right now is not only helping you as a whole really and truly discover yourself but I also think that when he gets his (believe me, bad actions ALWAYS get theres eventually, even if its not recognizible or even to the same degree)that you will go out there in the dating world and fall in love very quickly because you'll be so desireable. :) Can't wait to talk to you! <3 & huggs, Nickia
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Mon, 04-30-2007 - 5:48pm
No, I don't think anything will backfire on you because you explained your situation and I'm sure he'll understand.
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Mon, 04-30-2007 - 5:50pm
Answer is still no. See above reply to your post. I'm sure he's experienced car trouble before.
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Mon, 04-30-2007 - 6:02pm
haha ok. so my friend made me PROMISE to stop overanalyzing. she started screaming at me, hes interested hes interested u just need to see him and be fun and not worry so much and then proceeded to throw an astology book at my head. so as im suffering from a head wound, i wanted to ask you how is louisania? never been, always wanted to go, but my grandfather is from there.
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Mon, 04-30-2007 - 6:03pm

"I know that can't be easy for you as you sound like not only an intelligent person, but I just KNOW you're beautiful inside and out, sexy, kind and everything else that a man would want so it hasnt been easy for you." - how nice of you to say such nice things about me!

"violation of your right to be happy" - yes, crazy doctor didn't want me to be happy unless he was in my life. So...this is the cycle of abuse...he would rather "have" me abused and beaten than not have me at all. Sick...because if he was actually drawn to something inside of me...then he, by his own sickness, would extinguish the very thing that drew him to me.

"truly believe in karma" - I used to believe in karma and I bought a book that was very insightful by deepak chopra called "the seven spiritual laws of success" and it guides you through how to handle life and it kind of prepares you for disasters, like, letting go of ego attachments to things and people so that if you lose something or someone you don't cave in and die. In conjunction with this, the book also shows how a person should develop a sense of internal power versus external power and that compliments letting go of the ego attachments to things. But, based on what I have experienced, there is no karma out there. The reason I suggest this is because I used to be a good friend to people and if anyone, like crazy doc, would have told me that he was going to snatch my friend out of this world, hire people to stalk her and harass her until she cried "uncle" I would have not only tore him a new butthole but I definitely would have went to the police because this is not normal. Because he is wealthy people viewed this as an eccentricity instead of sick. If the bum on the corner would have done this to me, you bet everyone would have gotten creeped out and went to the police.

You are very upbeat and dont' strike me as pessimistic as much as cautious about getting your hopes up and you worry. but we all worry and it is normal and we always get a little nervous about whether or not a guy really likes us or things are going well.

Because I hope to put these guys in jail and take any medical licenses that they have away from them I really can't date until that day comes because, who knows who else they hired to hurt me. But I do look forward to getting a life again, complete with dating.

Thanks for your good wishes!

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Mon, 04-30-2007 - 6:13pm

Well, I know its true, so I'm only saying the truth :)

Ok, this doctor seriously is insane. I think I can relate a bit. My parents are both very wealthy but my mother treats me in some questionable ways and i know that if i tried to press charges or create a stir it would probably backfire on me. plus, im an only child and daddys little girl so its a bit hard for me to get cut off my parents completely(did i mention the guy is an only child and closer to his mom?) is there anything i can do to help put crazy psychopath behind bars where he belongs?

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Mon, 04-30-2007 - 11:51pm

nickia2006, you hold a very special place in my heart - you are the only person who, over the last 5 years, has asked me if there was anything he or she could do to help me. If you or anyone in your family knows anything about me or my life or the crime against me and many Americans (more details below) please contact the state attorney's office in West Palm Beach, FL. I live in Palm Beach County - you can get more from my profile here at ivillage. That would help free me and my cat Jesse.

Just dont come down to Florida - it is not safe here anymore. South Florida is "owned" by crazed doctor - and everyone here has a "script". I never knew this event was ever to take place - everyone left me out of the information pool and I am the only person here who does not have a "role." I am always just "me".

Everyone else has a "role". You see King Psycho has reduced the people of Florida to babbling fools, pretending they are in a movie. hehehe - sick isn't it? He promised everyone here that I was part of some PR stunt. I am not part of any sick PR stunt here or in Hollywood or anywhere. He basically lied so that like in the movie, "the Game", the victim (Michael Douglas) has to endure people who in his life changed due to their "part" in the movie of his life and are willing to let him die unless he can find his way through a maze of dangerous acts to save himself. It was all a prank and in the end Michael Douglas gets treated to a surprise party by a bunch of sick friends. No party here for me, just violence. So crazed doctor told everyone that part of my "role" is to run around and cry for help and to stay in role because I am not for real. Now, does that sound normal? NO. Who would agree to have people destroy her home, experiment medically on her cat, destroy her career, make it impossible to get a job, have love, have friends? No one agrees to that. My name is Linda. There is another Linda out there that must have agreed to do this with this particular doctor and when I arrived in Florida (from NY) people took my full name and mistook me for someone else. I don't know where this other Linda is, she might be a nurse in medicine somewhere, maybe in Massachussetts. That is the long story short. But because he is a doctor, he has instant credibility with law enforcement and the justice system. I am a mere woman compared to him. In addition, these doctors did form a network around the country and alot of the medical mishaps that you hear about on the news are an attempt by doctors to derail the HMO system. But that is another crime that these doctors are involved in. The crazed obsession guy and his attacks on me are an offshoot (anger at me for rejecting him) to what is going on around the country with doctors in general. I have been misdiagnosed twice because of this garbage by doctors and luckily I never listened to them and trusted my own instincts about my body. I wrote letters to the politicians of Florida over the last 2 years and had no luck with them addressing the problem with doctors down here. Who knows how much money crazy doctor has contributed to their campaigns?

Part of my freedom campaign is to destroy tourism in Florida. I want the state to suffer for not helping me 5 years ago when I went to the justice system for help and for allowing me to continue to suffer. The state should not reap any dollars if I can't.

I'm an only child too. My brother died when we were kids. You are very fortunate to have such wealth. My parents came over to this country with nothing and eventually became successful in retail owning, buying and selling Hallmark stores in NY. But they had a tough start and now my mother is in retirement and really doesn't have to worry much.

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Mon, 04-30-2007 - 11:55pm
I am in Florida. I am originally from NY. Take care of your head wound. Be careful of people hitting you inthe head. It's good that he is alot of fun because you sound like you are load of laughs too, ;-). Okay, so you will stop by tomorrow and visit with him and sweep him off of his feet right?
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Tue, 05-01-2007 - 12:20am

Hi Linda!

My name is actually Aletta :) Thanks! You actually hold a specila place in my heart as well. I'm so glad you started responding to my fanatic and overanalytic posts lol. Well, I think that’s sad and sick that no one has asked you for help. I’m not sure if you’re familiar with old 60s music but this is really my view of the world (song: easy to be hard by Three Dog Night). My favorite song in the whole world and to me it really says everything I want to really say. Please check it out and let me know what you think. :) Ok, well we’re going to have to work together to this crazy son of a bi*** out of your life and maybe just maybe you could move to California! :) With your cat! I LOVE jesse already! Lol. I love cats although the guy I was talking about has a dog lol. (see he needs that constant attention even though I don’t lol. Hmm, wait but how come im always so insecure….?) so tell me exactly what I can do. Im going to check out your profile and then see what I can do. So should I try to look up the information online and start emailing or calling or what? Let me know! :)

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Tue, 05-01-2007 - 12:40am
Florida huh? How's the weather there? Why the hell did I say Louisania. Oh mi god! lol. Yes, haha, my poor head wound. Thats what I'll chalk my dizziness up to ;) Oh, by the way if you want to talk to me further feel free to im me: aletta2005 :) just let me know who you are otherwise i probably wont respond. aww, thanks! im trying to be more fun. :) im a bit nervous because i called a few times today to apologize and see what his schedule is like tommorow but i still havent heard from him so im really hoping hes there tommorow. he should be since he works everyday, but i wouldve liked to actually know. ill just try to go early in the afternoon. im a bit nervous, but the girl is with me leaving with an actual day and him leaving a bit aroused and excited to see me again. lol. i'd love to sweep him off his feet, but i have a feeling it would be the other way around lol.