when to say the "L" word
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when to say the "L" word
| Thu, 11-11-2004 - 3:42pm |
I have been seeing this guy for about 6 months now. We both came out of bad relationships so we talked about going slow and taking things one at a time. Things have been so great since day one. I really couldn't be happier. But we both have a fear that we are going to get hurt again because of the past. I have tried doing everything I can to show him I care about him, that I want to be with him (only him) etc... To give him confidence that I really care about him. The only thing left is to say the three little words, I love you. He has been doing the same things for me as well and we seem to be on the same page, but just haven't really talked about it. I am starting to really fall for this guy, but I am afraid that if I say I love you he may think we are going too fast and I don't want to scare him off. At the same time it is eating at me holding back all the time. We both act like we are in love, but with the pasts being bad I think we both feel the same but hesitate. What should I do??? I don't want to freak him out but I really want to tell him how much he means to me.
Please help!!!
THANK YOU!
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| Thu, 11-11-2004 - 4:37pm |
Say it when you are totally sure you mean it, and say it simply b/c you want the other person to know. Say it as you would give a gift, with no expectations of anything in return. Do not say it expecting to hear it back.
