when to take it to the next step
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when to take it to the next step
| Wed, 06-09-2004 - 5:31am |
I've been dating my boyfriend for about seven months and I enjoy spending time with him immensely. We talk nightly on the phone and when we're together have a great time. I am in love with him and I honestly believe he feels very close to me as well. The problem is that I don't feel we get to spend enough time with each other. We see each other possibly one or two days a week and I want to see him more. We both are working hard and it's understandable when we've got work issues in the way but I get frustrated when he makes plans to do other things during our optimal free time. I'm trying not to be unreasonable and be understanding and so I haven't approached it with him yet. I am curious as to whether or not anyone else has any ideas.

I think you need to be very clear with him about what you need. If more quality time (for me, that face to face not phone) then say it. Look at his schedule with him and see if you can find places to meet up. Maybe you could have lunch together in the day? Or join each other with some things?
Good luck!