When your x starts dating someone else

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Registered: 04-22-2004
When your x starts dating someone else
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Sat, 06-19-2004 - 8:14pm
What do you do when you both can't let go but he starts something with another woman?

He still loves me and we see each other some but things are moving along with him and his new 'friend'. What should I do? Wait it out or never look back.


Advice please!!!

Heartbroken

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 06-19-2004 - 8:39pm
Heartbroken...

Are you divorced or separated? For that matter...were you married to this man at all? You didn't indicate anything here and Pianoguy is slightly confused!

Now...if you WERE married and you're now legally divorced...the EX can date whomever he wants. If you're just separated...seeing another woman is a "RED FLAG" that you should pay serious attention to. It's a safe bet that he wants the security (YOU) along with some new "adventures!" (HER)

But it's obvious from what has been said that YOU AREN'T READY to let this man go. Otherwise, you'd be moving forward in a different relationship.

Ask yourself this...if the EX did return...how many weeks would he stay with you before he seriously starts looking for somebody new....again? Think about it...

Pianoguy

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Registered: 05-26-2004
Tue, 06-22-2004 - 12:13pm
In my opinion, when you cant let go AND you cant be with that person, you need to have them OUT of your life.
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