Where do I find them?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-10-2004
Where do I find them?
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Sun, 10-03-2004 - 10:34am
I'm new to this board, but I have a question. I'm 26, have a great job, have a wide range of interests, not unattractive, but I can't seem to find any nice guys. Where are they? I don't do the bar/club scene, never really have been into that. I'm fairly shy, but not to the point that I won't strike up a conversation with someone I find interesting. What is wrong with me?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 10-03-2004 - 3:22pm
lizzie24601...

Pianoguy thinks you need a little more 'visibility' in order to meet up with the right guy.

What's wrong with getting involved in community sporting group, taking an enrichment course, or sharing a hobby with others who enjoy what you do? No doubt there are a few organizations (in your town) that could use some volunteers? You might connect with an attractive man this way too?

You DON'T have to do the bar/club scene...but you DO have to be seen. So if you can, try and stop hiding behind "the shy" personna and let a few of us know how cool you are. Judging from your ivillage profile, you've got a lot of wonderful qualities many men would appreciate.

Pianoguy