Where to go from here..
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Where to go from here..
| Mon, 07-10-2006 - 10:11am |
Im in my early twenties, and I havent had too many dating expiriences. I used to think I was as shy as they come, but I recently fond out that was not the case. Ive been flirting with a friend-of-a-friend for a little while now (and I feel quite acomplished, I didnt even know I could flirt untill a few months ago) and he was even flirting back... for the most part. So.. a few days ago my friend calls me, and her honey takes the phone to tell me that the guy in question has a thing for me but he is too shy to say anything (and apperantly just as ill-expirienced). Ive seen him a few times since then, but because we're both very much aware of how attracted we are to eachother, its just a big awkward bunch of silence. Ive come to the dramatic realization that it is up to me to make the first move... but I dont even know where to start. Especially due to the sudden lack of conversation and eye contact (which is a darn shame with that boys gorgeous eyes). We have tons in common, I dont know why we cant seem to make casual conversation... anyways, I dont realy know where to go from this point.

mabala...
Here's a suggestion from Pianoguy:
What's wrong with "double dating with another couple" the first time around?
This way neither one of you will be self-conscious because there will be 2 other people to talk with! As you gradually relax....date #2 should be a 'piece of cake?'
Good Luck!
Pianoguy
mabala...
PG's PS:
To see if ANY RELATIONSHIP HAS A CHANCE....one of the 2 partners has to be the aggressor!
If you both sit still and say "nothing"----NOTHING WILL HAPPEN!
Pianoguy