Which guy should I choose?
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| Fri, 11-03-2006 - 8:28am |
After months and months of dating drought, I'm caught in a downpour- and have to choose between three interested guys. They all know each other and are friendly, so I can't casually date all three, and that's really not my style anyway. I'd really like to be in a serious relationship and leave this dating madness behind. So I have to pick the right one, because if it doesn't work out with the first guy, moving on to a second of this particular bunch will be impossible. Please advise!
Guy #1: sweet, generous, thoughtful, genius, humble, handsome. He's perfect. But: he's 12 years my senior (I'm 25). He's established in a great job with great pay, whereas I'm just getting my foot in the door and have little money. I'm afraid I'll always feel like he's out of my league, even if he doesn't feel that way.
Guy #2: he's a lone wolf, a sphinx, so smart and sexy and fascinating. I was secretly in love with him for a whole year, then we had a short fling, then he left the country, then he came back and seemed to have forgotten about the fling. But now that other people are paying attention to me, he's acting jealous and interested. My brain knows he's bad news, but he's so frickin foxy!
Guy #3: unconventionally hot, smart, quirky, weird, shy. We have great conversations. One friend thinks he's a bit anal retentive (something I can deal with) and another friend thinks he could be a serial killer (something I can't deal with). In all fairness, that second friend's opinions and instincts are usually the polar opposite of mine.
Help help! What shall I do?

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#1 is too old for you...#2 sounds too unpredictable.