Which one?

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Registered: 08-11-2006
Which one?
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Sat, 08-12-2006 - 1:37am
So I have a problem, I am kinda stuck on choosing between guys...there is my boyfriend which I have been dating for a while now and he has just become so womanly...and my ex boyfriend who is very new and exciting,just i dont know if its time for a change what do I do?
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Registered: 10-17-2002
In reply to: panda4477
Sat, 08-12-2006 - 6:58pm

Well, you and the ex broke up for a reason.

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Registered: 08-11-2006
In reply to: panda4477
Sat, 08-12-2006 - 10:54pm
well me and my ex broke up because my best friend liked him and i didnt want to do that to her, it has been three years since that...and my boyfriend is moving away in a few weeks not too far but an hour, he is very clingy and that is not my style...i dont know what to do my boyfriend is talking about getting married and that is just too far away i mean we have only been dating for two months..he is starting to creep me out. Like i saw him today and he said i dont see him enough and that he wants to see me more...i see him like almost everyday, a girl needs her space sometimes. He is just making me crazy
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Registered: 05-05-2003
In reply to: panda4477
Sun, 08-13-2006 - 9:11pm

You're not "stuck" between two guys.


Sounds to me like you're no longer interested in the one you're with, so you're projecting how fun it would be with the ex, instead of living in the "here and now" and realizing that you should be breaking off things with the bf and stepping back out of the "relationship" thing for a few weeks.

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Registered: 10-17-2002
In reply to: panda4477
Sun, 08-13-2006 - 10:30pm

OK, the whole best-friend/ex thing is weird but irrelevant here.

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Registered: 08-11-2006
In reply to: panda4477
Tue, 08-15-2006 - 2:06am
Thank you so much, it's good to hear that advice! your a life saver!
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Registered: 04-15-2003
In reply to: panda4477
Tue, 08-15-2006 - 12:28pm

Your ex seems new and exciting only because you're not with him anymore so the things that bothered you aren't front and center. It sounds like the timing is not right for you to have a commited relationship, as that bores you. So level with everyone, don't sneak behind anyone's back. It's not fair to them or to you.


Especially have a conversation with your boyfriend - be kind

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