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Which one?
| Sat, 08-12-2006 - 1:37am |
So I have a problem, I am kinda stuck on choosing between guys...there is my boyfriend which I have been dating for a while now and he has just become so womanly...and my ex boyfriend who is very new and exciting,just i dont know if its time for a change what do I do?

Well, you and the ex broke up for a reason.
You're not "stuck" between two guys.
Sounds to me like you're no longer interested in the one you're with, so you're projecting how fun it would be with the ex, instead of living in the "here and now" and realizing that you should be breaking off things with the bf and stepping back out of the "relationship" thing for a few weeks.
OK, the whole best-friend/ex thing is weird but irrelevant here.
Your ex seems new and exciting only because you're not with him anymore so the things that bothered you aren't front and center. It sounds like the timing is not right for you to have a commited relationship, as that bores you. So level with everyone, don't sneak behind anyone's back. It's not fair to them or to you.
Especially have a conversation with your boyfriend - be kind