Why..

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Registered: 08-07-2006
Why..
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Wed, 08-22-2007 - 12:31am

Why am I always so attracted to the bad guy (for lack of better words)? The guys that really like to party, drink, wild, have a bad past, and just want sex. HELP!

Thanks for you help, advice and opinion.
Pamela
www.LoveYourHomeBiz.com

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Registered: 11-30-2006
In reply to: psego06
Wed, 08-22-2007 - 11:49am
Probably because the sex is good, hehe.
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Registered: 08-07-2006
In reply to: psego06
Wed, 08-22-2007 - 1:46pm

You are good, I love your answers to things. Though I am at the point where I want a little more than just casual sex or a fling, but to be steady with someone and a nice guy.

Pamela
www.LoveYourHomeBiz.com

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Registered: 11-30-2006
In reply to: psego06
Wed, 08-22-2007 - 5:44pm

Hmmm,then maybe you will find a bad boy who has grown up some..which would take care of all of your needs. =)

If not, then you might have to retrain yourself as to what you find attractive in men, which is a tough thing to do.

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Registered: 04-15-2003
In reply to: psego06
Fri, 08-24-2007 - 3:18pm

That you're asking means that a part of you wants to change the pattern. That's a great first step. Only you can really answer that question - what is your background like, what is the relationship like between your parents... the more you understand and the more you value yourself the more you will want to only be with guys who will treat you well!


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Registered: 04-15-2003
In reply to: psego06
Sat, 08-25-2007 - 12:39pm
I don't know what the original question was to this post.
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