why am i going numb for no reason? help
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why am i going numb for no reason? help
| Thu, 04-22-2004 - 4:05pm |
im so confused. help! been dating this guy for the last month and a half. everything has been going well, i was happy/excited. nice guy, funny, met through a friend. lately weve spent a lot of time together, but with group of friends, not a lot of one on one time. i feel like all of a sudden i dont know him like i should, im picking him apart and putting up this emotional wall. not feel as excited anymore but not for any specific reason. we are going out tonight, just the two of us, and i feel it may be good time to feel him out, get to know him more on a deeper level. why do i seem to either totally emotionally turn off with a guy i like or totally overanalyze, think is this guy the one, right for me?> i am 29 its only natural to sort of ask this. i was in a long term relationship, and took couple years to get over. and i really am, no looking back. i just feel i maybe dont know how to just be with someone, how to connect with someone new, etc. this is totally me, hes fine, as nothing is up or wrong or off. how can i stop being this way, get over this hurdle. i am going to try and have fun tonight, be my self take it slow, all of that stuff. im not looking for instant relat. or some huge commitment right away. is anyone else this way??? I need advice!!

Godd luck and have fun!