Why can't I break up with him?
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Why can't I break up with him?
| Sat, 07-24-2004 - 12:05pm |
This guy that I am dating is a complete a**!! He has drinking problem, he is verbally abusive and I see in the very near future him becoming physically abusive. I know I need to and I want to end it, but everytime I go to do it, I can't. What is wrong with me?

I would ask the same question that ccruise asked you... Are you scared of what he will do when you dump him? If you are that scared, tell him over the phone or if even that is too scary, wait until you know he is not home and leave him a 'see ya' message on his answering machine. I know most people would say breaking up should be done in person but if he has violent tendencies, don't do it in person. However you do it, I wouldn't hesitate to do it soon... you don't want to wait until after he starts becoming abusive.