why can't i get a boyfriend ?
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why can't i get a boyfriend ?
| Mon, 04-10-2006 - 4:23pm |
I haven't been on a date for six months and i'm starting to wonder why, as does every person that i meet and looks surprised when i say i'm single. I'm successful in my law studies, people say i have a good sense of humor and that i'm really attractive. So where is the problem ? i go out once or twice a week and meet new guys often but nobody ever asks me out, although i'm not that shy and try to communicate a positive feeling !

Laury, I have to say that in todays world it gets harder to meet people outside of your own circle of friends. I have found that those people that are very outgoing and just fun to be around are the ones that get asked out. I am naturally an introvert but to up my social life I go the other way. I make it a game. I go with friends or alone and say I am going to talk to 3 new people today. I am either flirty, fun, funny, anything that I feel like being...that tends to draw men in.
Good luck!
Nilonga
How about asking a guy out yourself instead of waiting for them to ask you? Take better control of your own love life.
Good Luck
F
Two guy friends who I met online both said they would never have approached me IRL, because they would have been intimidated by me. I don't really see why, because I'm totally laid back, but I guess you can't tell a person's personality solely on their looks/behaviour when they're out socialising with friends.
I actually have a lot of trouble meeting friends (male and female) in person. For some reason, girls feel threatened because I'm blonde and guys feel intimidated because I'm blonde. LOL I can't win!
Anyway, I've had better luck meeting people (guys and girls) online lately. Have you done the online thing?
Edited 4/10/2006 11:52 pm ET by pureatheart11
You may just be intimidating many guys, which is not a bad thing, as it starts weeding them out early ;)