Why compete with ex gf?!
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Why compete with ex gf?!
| Tue, 07-27-2004 - 5:36pm |
Hi, I posted here before, about my free relationship of 4 months with this guy i really like.
Well, we get along great, have fun dates, he says he likes me and stuff, but I guess we are both pretty insecure about each other feelings because we kind of play some games, on my side as a way of not getting hurt on his side I dont know why... He said a couple of times that i treat him bad, and that he once open up for someone but after getting hurt, he only does this if he is really sure the other person cares.
Well, what bothers me now is my crazy head and all her wild and stupid thoughts!!
He and I got out of long rs almost 8 months ago, my ex (who broke up with me)is keeping in touch with me (he doesn t like that, the new guy i mean), but he and his ex dont, but they dated for so long, and he had sooo many things before breaking up with her (he did the break up) that im often scare that deep down he misses her and wants to get back together! He never told me so, i even ask and he said that no, he dont want his ex. But when he talks about his winter and summer vacation (with her), or his previous job (with her) I get the chills!!! Also, he knows plenty of women clothing and stuff because of her... I know i cant compete with his first serious gf in teh long run, but i cant stop thinking about how great, beautifull, perfect, well dress little woman he is missing out or he is used to.
Its too stupid this?
Well, we get along great, have fun dates, he says he likes me and stuff, but I guess we are both pretty insecure about each other feelings because we kind of play some games, on my side as a way of not getting hurt on his side I dont know why... He said a couple of times that i treat him bad, and that he once open up for someone but after getting hurt, he only does this if he is really sure the other person cares.
Well, what bothers me now is my crazy head and all her wild and stupid thoughts!!
He and I got out of long rs almost 8 months ago, my ex (who broke up with me)is keeping in touch with me (he doesn t like that, the new guy i mean), but he and his ex dont, but they dated for so long, and he had sooo many things before breaking up with her (he did the break up) that im often scare that deep down he misses her and wants to get back together! He never told me so, i even ask and he said that no, he dont want his ex. But when he talks about his winter and summer vacation (with her), or his previous job (with her) I get the chills!!! Also, he knows plenty of women clothing and stuff because of her... I know i cant compete with his first serious gf in teh long run, but i cant stop thinking about how great, beautifull, perfect, well dress little woman he is missing out or he is used to.
Its too stupid this?

What you need to focus on is making new memories and a new history with him.