Why did he call?
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| Fri, 04-16-2004 - 9:48pm |
During lunch he asked for and keyed my home and cell numbers into his cell. That afternoon we became very intimate...no actual sex, but very passionate. He called , when he said he would, to set up our next date. Again, it was a great date. We talked enthusiasticaly about all kinds of subjects. We made each other laugh. I felt we had really connected. And, it wasn't just stars in my eyes, I felt he really did too. His eyes sparkled when we talked. His smile seemd so genuine.
After dinner we went to his house and attempted to have sex. He couldn't maintain an erection. I didn't make a big deal out of it and we continued to cuddle and "play". We talked for almost an hour or more. I had to go home to relieve the baby sitter. When I left I told him how much I enjoyed myself because I really did. I had developed,in a very short time, some deep feelings for him. I am 48 and had never fallen so quickly for someone.
This was a Monday. He said he would call on Thursday or Friday. Well, those days came and went...no call. A week passed and no call. So I called him. I got his voice mail and said, " Just calling to say hi and see how you're doing. Give me a call. I'd like to get together soon." I left my number...just in case. That was one month ago. I got over it and had pretty much written him off, but couldn't help but wonder, occassionaly, what happened.
He called me today. He said he didn't forget about me and wanted see how I was doing.He said he's been busy traveling with work. I was polite. We exchanged stories on what we had been up to. He then told me he's seeing someone now. So I thanked him for calling and wished him luck. So he said "Don't be a stranger. Call me, even if you just want to talk."
My question is... what just happened? What was the purpose of the call? I don't get it. Why didn't he just let sleeping dogs lie?

Also, he might have been VERY embarrassed about that first sexual encounter. He waited until a little time had passed, when he felt better, and then he called because he wanted you to know (or think) that he is capable of having a functional relationship. Kind of "nonny-nonny-na-na, I can do it!"
Those are the only reasons I can think of him to call you... childish, huh? Forget about him...you can DEFINITELY do better!