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| Tue, 11-16-2004 - 11:12pm |
why do guys finally realize what they lost when we dont want them anymore, its been 3 months since my bf and i broke up and we were together for 3 yrs, i was just wondering what takes them so long to realize, and do they go through the same pain we went through when in a break up! I would really like some answers so they would be greatly appreciated, thanks linz

hmmm...yes, we go through the same pain that you do...it is very painful...the whole body feels so sick...u think u r going to die...but u wait hoping time will heal...until theres this break point where u just feel that u cant live without her anymore and it is simply impossible to be alive without her...and then at times the attempt to communicate again gets desperate, crazy and simply illogical to the normal human world...thats when u girls probably just dump us straight...and i believe in most cases that is the best answer...and we convince ourselves that she isnt into me anymore and so just forget it and move on...hmmm...
elvis_in_silence
Bellina Fair here,
A question posed to you Elvisnsilence.You seem quite interesting in your choice
of names.Do you truly feel a similarity to the king of Rocknroll. Your verbal expressions,phrases all seem to emulate that of Elvis with the mmms,and sweet
romantic overtones. I happen to be an avid Elvis fan,and have loved him all of my
thirty plus years,growing up mainly in Great Britain. Now to state my views on
men and now they react emotionally hurt as the female gender,very confused.Men
may be hurt but usually bounce back quicker than us gals do. On average after
ending a relationship,ladies feel heartache,tears,sleeplessness,unworthy
of being loved again,etcc...Men are blue,and feel a void,until they see the next
buxom,pretty lass that catches their eye,they don't isolate themselves as long.
I'm sure men feel their world is upsidedown for a bit,but it's us gals that
can cry an ocean of tears,support the kleenex industry,binge on favorite foods,
and need to grieve our heartbreak for longer lengths of time. Don't get me
wrong,I still love men,but take longer in getting to know that special someone
who makes one fall madly in love with all over again...And Elvis,do you resemble
Mr. Presley? (Kidding,but serious!) I dated an Elvis Impersonator while living
in Nevada,he looked like a young Elvis( during his first movies,Blue Hawaii,
Viva Las Vegas,Speedway,etc..,G.Miller who starred in Legends in Concert on the
Vegas Strip..Was a very memorable romance,but just that,He sounded quite like him,even
won 3rd best Elvis tribute artist in the U.S.. I loved him,he like Elvis loved his
audience,and girls,girls,girls, Til this day,I think of him,now he's no longer
in the show as 8 years have passed,he's older,perhaps now like the 70's
Elvis,soulful and chubbier.(Still love him - the real Elvis)...Bellina Fair. cheers..