Why do guys call you and not ask u out?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-24-2004
Why do guys call you and not ask u out?
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Sun, 03-07-2004 - 3:29pm
And when they do ask u out, it's only from time to time. But really....why call me to just talk and not ask me out......can a guy please explain this to me because I really don't get it.

And these are guys I have known for over a year and they call me, I've gone out with them before, they call at least twice a week, I hardly call them, but they don't ask me out or only now and then. Please explain.

Is it because I am not 'sexually active'...if so, that is sad. All the guys know that I am not giving it up yet. Are they keeping me in the wings for later, if so I am moving on....

And why do some guys only call when they want to go out with you? But you don't hear from them as often as the guys who call to "just talk".

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-27-2004
Tue, 03-09-2004 - 11:26am
Kind of hard to figure. My guess is you're right about them just keeping you on the line. They may be checking in to see if maybe you're changing your mind about having sex. They may just be curious about soneone who's holding out. But I don't know. It sounds kind of odd to me.