Why do men do this....The "YoYo Effect"
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| Sun, 08-22-2004 - 6:24pm |
Why do men who have reached the age of maturity say 53 who have been married once with adult children still play games? When a man breaks up with a woman and says I need to go in another direction do not call me, come to my house, email me or anything and the woman says ok if you do not love me anymore or want me so be it. Then the woman doesn't call or email or come to house do they keep calling? First they say I was worried about you and talk like nothing has happened for an hour. Then call the next day to say I am sorry for calling the other day and talk for another hour. Then call a third day to again say they are sorry and then make plans to see you.
This guy would promise not to call me each time he would send me away (3 times in all over the last 8 months). He would wait sometimes a few hours or maybe a few days. The longest was 10 days when he was mad with me over what he saw as a betrayal because I was tired of him breaking up with me. Then he would say it is not good for him to see me, but see me anyway. When I don't take the calls he keeps calling until I do. This time I am not and I am changing the number. If he wants me he is going to have to come with a lot more than what he has been doing and I am not so sure I want him back this time. But what is up with that? Is it sex that makes them crazy or something else?
Thanks for thoughts in advance the more the better.

This is not something all men do.
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