Why do some men brag about sex?
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| Sun, 01-01-2006 - 5:45pm |
First of all Happy New Year to you all.
I used to date this guy and he was nothing but respectful and nice when we dated.
Anyways, we ended things a few months ago and I am over him completely, he just wasn't for me. We have a mutual group of friends so we have remained civil to one another.
Since we have split up he constantly brings up sleeping with other women, not to me but to my friends. He brings this up to my close friends that are obviously going to say something to me. They will be talking about a random topic (nothing to do with women or girls) and out of nowhere he will be like "Yeah I recently slept with a girl like that." Who cares! Why does he keep bringing this up he just looks stupid? Is he trying to make me jealous or is he really that insecure that he wants to look cool? Please give me some insight into this strange male behavior.
I've always been told that men that talk about it alot aren't really getting it. Is there any truth behind that.

I think the answer to your question is that some men are insecure. They like to have people think of them as a 'player'.
beachy81...
Sometimes a man will "network himself" around others (of both sexes) with the hope that an eager, nubile female (who happens to be listening to the conversation) will follow him home and shed off her clothes...just out of curiosity to see if the man can..."measure up to her expectations?"
Pianoguy
It could be he's trying to make you jealous.
Men, at least some of them, think they have to brag how much sex they got to make themselves look good. When men get together, they like to claim how good they are with the ladies. Even young boys in their teens, brag about how they were able to bag a girl.
At any rate, don't let him get to you. If you are broken up, you and he are past history. Don't allow him to get to you.