why does he tease me so much?

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Registered: 04-15-2003
why does he tease me so much?
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Thu, 04-01-2004 - 10:45pm
hey everyone,

im 19 and the guy i like is 25. I got this shirt and the guy i like made fun of it, i think its sexy, so do my girlfriends, and i bought it cuz it flatters my shoulders cuz its an off-the shoulder shirt, the guy just said it looked like stuff u wore back in the day (but u know how the old stuff is comin back) and he kept poking fun at it like 4-5 times! and he made sure everyone else heard him make fun of it! obviously he noticed it...he doesnt make fun of other girl's clothes...he makes fun my looks (but people say im pretty, and im confident about myself to know that im pretty)--i dont want to sound conceited but. anyway why does he do that?? he does make fun of people but he does it to me the most...my friend told me i set myself up sometimes to be made fun of, and if that is true, do u think thats why he makes fun of me?? not because hes flirting? but just because i set myself up? sometimes i dont even say/do somethin and hell make fun of me!! y do guys make fun of a girl's looks, if they are pretty? y does he make fun of me more? does he like the attention i give him back or something? i make eyecontact with him and he maintains eye contact for about 2-3 seconds and then looks away, then looks back...he does make fun of other people, even girls, but not about the clothes they wear or there looks, and a couple of the girls even notice he makes fun of me the most..he even admitted to me and some other ppl once that he makes fun of me the most! anyway, thanks a lot

-michelle

ps. is the age gap too big?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 04-02-2004 - 12:11am
you sound like a young 19 and he sounds like he doesn't know the first thing about how to behave...maybe he thinks you're out of his league if you're so pretty and consequently teases you instead of trying to ask you out? You should be watching out for a man who makes you feel good about yourself, not one that makes you question what he's thinking about you!! I don't think that the age gap is too big...I just think that he's a waste of your time. Move on.