Why does his words not match his actions
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| Sun, 07-18-2004 - 2:12pm |
It has been done with someone for a couple months now, we needed time from the other and I called it quits because every tine something happened he would say it was over (he ended it like 10 times in three years and I was dumb to keep going back). Anyway, when it ended he would say he wanted ne back, etc but would never answer questions I had for him, wouldnt respond to my text messages but yet I always answered his questions, he would wait to get back to me on things and then when I would ask if he was seeing anyone just for conversation insted of saying yes or no he would say I was scrweing around. he would act in ways that made me feel i had to leave him. He would say one thing but his actions did not match up. Well, last weekend he writes this email about how he misses us, he willalweays think of me, he has this heavy heart cuz eh always thought we would marry, he says he is not seeing anyone, I have his heart still and it is a mistake we are not together, etc BUT when I call back cuz he wanted to know I got the messag eat elast and I responded nicely to his message he doesnt call back util days later. Why the hell would he write this? is he just having a "moment" he says he thought I was the one but yet didnt or couldnt call back or says I am the one but yet I will think of you always even though I will be with someone else someday well if that si the case why let me go and accept he would eb with someone else someday. he says this is all me I dont care naymore when I said we needed time we fought all the time, he accused me of things, would just be mean and now I dont talk to him whern he wants to talk but yet he never called to say lest talk, he would ignore my messages, I would get hurt and cry about the situtaion and he hung up on me once, doesnt add up so why email and say things??? I dont get it. It is liek he wats em to still loe him and want to be with him but doesnt put the actions into it or effort. Why?? Why contact me???

This is an easy one....
He calls you because he knows YOU'LL REACT and ANSWER HIM BACK!
Don't give him the satisfaction...IGNORE HIM and MOVE ON! You've wasted too much time already with this jerk!
Pianoguy